Wednesday, September 14, 2011

AN EVERY MAN SHOULD KNOW: HOW TO EXCEL ON DATE

Asking girl for a date is a charm or magic that man posses, that no man can explain how they did it. Wondering  why? Well its Magic! Lucky are those men who dated a girl. What if its your first time? sometimes men are shy on dating because they don't know where to start or what to do on a date.  
Some singles are in need of dating tips when it comes to their dating behavior and etiquette. This list of Dating Tips can serve as a helpful tool to truly reflect what it is that you are doing on dates ~ and if you aren't getting that second date, you might want to consider the possibility that you might be committing one of these Don'ts.

1).   Don't pull out the BlackBerry / Answer cell phone calls. Your date will become annoyed and feel like they are being disrespected and that you don't consider the date important. DO: Turn those gadgets off for an hour! Try to give your date your full attention. Life and business will go on if you do not respond immediately to that incoming message.
2) Don't continually talk about yourself - No one finds a Talking Head to be interesting and overly attractive. Both parties should offer information about themselves and ask questions to find out more about the other person. Also, don't interrupt them when they are speaking. DO: Be attentive and listen! Keep in mind, you already know yourself, a date is time to learn about someone else.
 3). Don't shut down if you aren't attracted to your date. An initial negative or positive response to someone's attractiveness can change over time, even within the first 15 minutes. By shutting down and not giving her a chance, you can sabotage a great relationship from ever developing. DO: Remain attentive to your date, even if you have doubts when you first sit down.   
4). Don't complain about anything and everything. You'll be perceived as a very negative, dismal individual. Another component of this is being rude to restaurant staff and other individuals when out on a date. DO: Stay positive. Focus on your attitude, if you have nothing nice to say, refrain from saying it. Also, your date is examining how you treat other people and will take it as a direct example of how you will treat her in a relationship.
5). Don't Google someone prior to a date and then discuss your findings. Eeew! Don't let technology take the pleasure out of dating. The reason why you are there is to learn about them - why bother meeting them if you are going to conduct your own investigation from your safe haven behind the computer screen? DO: Keep an air of mystery flowing on a date and if you want to find out more about the person you're with, ask them directly.


The Golden Rule - Keep it real, have fun, and don't take it all so seriously. Put these dating tips to good use, enjoy yourself, and actively enjoy the other person's company!
Reference:Men, Not Getting That Second Date, and Want It?



By Christie Nightingale

Wednesday, September 7, 2011

WHAT ARE THE THINGS THAT MAN DON'T KNOW ABOUT WOMEN?

It was a rainy day at 2:00 o'clock in the afternoon with my guy friend while having a nice conversation at Starbucks we came across with the topic "what are the things that man don't know about women?, well obviously no one dare to answer the question, so what I did was log on to Google browser then tried to find out the answer, well luckily found  this answer. But some are in western setting so I tried to open my account on facebook and try to ask some of the ladies whom I consider as friend.  (by the way they don't know that I'm going to post this on my blog).

1. It's cute when you don't quite know how to dress, so long as your not knowing doesn't involve jean shorts or a fanny pack. We can only handle so much eyestrain. —Cassie Rodenberg, 22, Charleston, South Carolina

2. We are easy to please ,we tell what we want, but the problem is that what it takes changes depending on our moods, we can't help being so emotional, in fact its the reasons you like us so much... – Gemma Nacion Marcos, Philippines

3.  When we ask you how we look, you lose points every time you answer with "fine." —Dani Ruiz, 21, Encinitas, California

4. Electronics clipped to your pants are sexy only if you're Batman, Superman, or any other kind of man who needs them to save lives, not send e-mail. — Rachel Sturtz, 28, New York

5. We can read you like a book, so if something is wrong or bothering you, don't be afraid to share it. It saves us the trouble of having to spend all day guessing.

6. We like to talk a lot, so even if you don't really care about what we're saying, fake it.--Maria Jaena Delos Santos, Philippines

7. We appreciate when you can admit you're wrong, but we also don't want you to say sorry too much. —Katie Knies, 22, North Salem, New York

8. We'll never understand why you slap each other's butts when you're playing sports. And that's okay. —Aminata Dia, 22, San Jose, California

9. We don't like guys who agree with us all the time. — Katie Knies, 22, North Salem, New York

10. We don't need special moves. Just do the regular ones right. — Katie Dinardo, 23, Brooklyn

11. We want to see you cry every once in a while-it makes you human. To find out how often is acceptable, divide the number of cries by the number of no-holds-barred, screaming orgasms you've given us. If the quotient is greater than 0.25, you're a whiny bitch. — Carrie Dienhart, 34, Kansas City, Missouri

12. That we are much stronger than they think were not - Belle Alde Sibulo, Philippines

13. When we say that nothing is wrong, we mean that you should know what is wrong without us having to tell you. — Lara Ehrlich, 28, Chicago

14. Because we love security and fidelity, we also love love handles. Your six-pack anxiety only threatens us with the possibility you might care more about your abs than you care about us. —Alexis Justman, 23, El Centro, California

15. We gauge how good a father you'll be by how you treat your family. —Alexandria Pruitt, 24, Louisville

16. We might like your particularly tight pants, as long as no body parts are visible through them. —Anna Szapiro, 21, Takoma Park, Maryland
17. Within a year of dating you, we already know your jeans size, social security number, and important passwords by heart. So try and make sure you know a few things about us, too. Like our favorite color. —Melissa VanDerLinden, 27, Springfield, Missouri

18. Sometimes we just want to be alone. It's not you. It's us. Really. —Jennifer Smith, 34, Atlanta

19. Your natural smell is (usually) the sexiest cologne. Sarah Spry, 20, New York

20. We look into your minds by reading your magazines. — Lisa Alva, 49, Los Angeles

21. Presentation counts. Wrap your gift and iron your shirt. — Merritt Watts, 25, New York

22. We think the clean-laundry smell of you in your undershirt is a thousand times more appealing than even the best cologne. —Dina Sanchez, 29, Brooklyn

 
23. It's cute when you don't quite know how to dress, so long as your not knowing doesn't involve jean shorts or a fanny pack. We can only handle so much eyestrain. —Cassie Rodenberg, 22, Charleston, South Carolina

 
 24. Be careful: singing to us can be totally cute. But only if you can actually sing. —Rose Farnsworth, 19, Nashville



 















 



Friday, September 2, 2011

ARE YOU A COFFEE DRINKER? HERE IS THE GOOD NEWS

Since I had my facebook account and talk to my friends over the internet for hours, I find my self that I am fun of drinking coffee and lately I've noticed that I consumed at least 3 cups at night and 1 of each morning and in the afternoon. Well, Is drinking to much coffee causes renal failure? 
The answer in NO'.  Renal failure occurs for reason such as genetic factors, trauma to the kidney, previous infection, obstruction and loss of circulatory volume from the body following trauma causing shock. So, what are you waiting for go and grab a cup of coffee.

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